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Counselling Young People

By: Anna Martin - Updated: 8 May 2020 | comments*Discuss
Counselling Children Young People

Counselling for children and young people is available to provide supportive help for many reasons. It can provide understanding in person-centred therapy, a means of facilitating communication where behavioural issues are concerned or support in a family conflict situation. Counselling gives young people a secure, confidential environment where they can express and understand their feelings, thoughts and emotions.

Working With Children

Counsellors working with children and young people need to possess excellent listening skills, patience, understanding and an interest in children. They must also be sensitive to a child’s needs, and to be aware of their own personal feelings towards issues that may arise during their counselling relationship with a child. In some cases, a counsellor may be required to take action and inform other professionals, as a result of information disclosed during a counselling session.

Child Protection

Counsellors working with children and young people will undergo additional training that is linked to the Child Protection Committee. They will also have established links with the Child Protection Unit in their local area.

What Counselling Offers Young People

The counselling relationship between a counsellor and child is known as ‘joining’, and offers the basic principles that apply to counselling relationships built with adults. This supportive service can be offered as a one-to-one session with the child, or in a family situation, which forms part of group counselling.

Counselling young people:

  • Helps establish trust and understanding with a child.
  • Encourages the child to tell their story, in a confidential and safe environment.
  • Allows the young person to express him/herself, and to explore feelings and thoughts.
  • Enables the child to make informed choices.
  • Helps the young person develop a positive attitude.
  • Helps the young person develop and build confidence and self-esteem.

Time to Talk

Counselling does not provide children and young people with answers and solutions to their problems. What it does offer is an opportunity to explore feelings, thoughts and experiences, and to understand and discuss issues that may be on the young person’s mind. Counselling is a supportive relationship built on trust, and is available for a young person to use to enable them to make progress and informed choices. Many young people experience difficulties at home, in school, with their peers and in understanding their feelings and emotions. Making counselling available to this age group provides many benefits for the individuals willing to explore this form of supportive therapy.

Types of Counselling

Very young children can benefit from play therapy, which builds their confidence and self-esteem whilst encouraging open communication in a confidential, safe environment. This type of counselling may also involve role play and creative activities like drama and drawing.

Counselling can help young people understand their thoughts, feelings and worries. It can provide an opportunity to discuss concerns they may have regarding their parents’ divorce, and allows the young person to talk to someone who is completely impartial. Counsellors can also help children overcome bullying, come to terms with the death of someone they love or provide reassurance about other matters. Counselling can also help young people deal with sexual issues and drug and alcohol concerns.

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Hi, I am currently doing TQUK lvl3 and a question has popped up that is not my strength/area ( I am leaning towards substance misuse/the mental effect) it requests ? Explain the benefits of counselling to young people and how individuals can benefit from attending sessions with you ? .I genuinely do not know where to begin, cananyone help please Thank you in advance .
The Green Jeep - 5-May-20 @ 1:58 PM
@KK - rule number one, never interfere in your children's relationships. It is up to your daughter who she should choose and she may decide herself that this person is not for her. But as a rule, the more you tell her not to choose this man, the more she will want to!
AmesB - 29-Jun-18 @ 2:58 PM
How to counsel26 year daughter that her choice of life partner is not of her or her family's match. I am too doing M A in psychology and 60 years old. I have decided to take it as profession. As I am retired I need some earning too pl. Guide me best ways to success.
KK - 29-Jun-18 @ 1:42 AM
Please advise me. I have a BA in psychological counseling and a PGCE in foundation phase. I want to become my school counselor. What courses can I do to achieve this?
Ash - 6-Nov-17 @ 7:55 PM
The comments you shared about working with children, were very interesting. Often times, I've found that most kids just need to talk to someone. They just need someone to listen to their experiences. When I was younger, I always needed someone to celebrate my successes and help me through my failures. My parents were the ones who helped me, and sometimes kids don't have that kind of relationship with their parents, and they just need an adult friend. Child counseling is always a good option.
Charlotte - 21-Jul-15 @ 3:16 PM
@Gikundiro - you would have to get in touch with the course providers directly in order to gain this information.
TheCounsellorsGuide - 27-Mar-15 @ 10:11 AM
I'm a National Trainer Counselor and I'm initiating a Lay Counseling training in my country. This approach will help the psychosocial support in the community especially people living with HIV. I would like to have modules on Lay Counseling to support my training sessions, how should I be connected to your courses? Thank you, Concessa
Gikundiro - 27-Mar-15 @ 8:43 AM
@Jan The 3 wheeler - it is quite difficult to become a counsellor without specific experience, even voluntarily. However, you can work with teenagers in a variety of different ways and I suggest you have a browse at the opportunities on Do It here . I hope this helps.
TheCounsellorsGuide - 16-Mar-15 @ 12:08 PM
How do I get into voluntary work if someone can point me in the right directions I would like to know.I would like to work with teenager's because the pressures they are under is hard but I do not know how to get into the part of counselling and where to go so if someone could point me in the right direction then I would be very happy for the information on it.
Jan The 3 wheeler - 13-Mar-15 @ 7:35 AM
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